May 1, 2008...4:38 pm
Social Networks, Terms of Services and You
Social networking websites-such as Myspace, Facebook and Twitter are steadily gaining popularity. It seems that everyone nowadays uses some type of social networking service to keep in touch with friends, family and even making business connections. For most, social networking websites are a lot of fun and convenient. It’s nice to be able to log onto a website and instantly connect to a wide range of people, and for those who might not get a chance to meet a lot of people in their daily life, social networking websites are a fairly easy way to meet new people to befriend, whether they live in your own back yard, or thousands of miles away.
Like so many things however, social networking sites do have some negative issues surrounding them. When you sign up to use a social networking site, you are possibly opening yourself up to vulnerabilities. Those vulnerabilities can be in the form of malicious codes and viruses that may infect your computer and they can also come in the form of other users. We have all heard the horror stories of pedophiles using websites like MySpace to lure little kids into harms way-however, pedophiles only make up a tiny little percentage of “bad guys” you or your children might encounter. Instead, there is a greater chance of encountering an individual or group who use the anonymous nature of the world wide web to well, behave badly. Cyberbullying and cyberharrassment are increasingly becoming a threat to both children and adults alike. One of the most monumental cases of cyber bullying is the story of Megan Meier, a teenage girl who committed suicide after falling victim to a cruel hoax.
Before a person is allowed to begin using a social networking website, he or she is required to read and agree to a Terms of Service (a TOS). An example of the Twitter’s TOS agreement can be found here. One of the TOS states: “You must not abuse, harass, threaten, impersonate or intimidate other Twitter users.” This rule is not just in place on Twitter, it is in place for any type of social website, whether it be Myspace, Facebook, Twitter, or even a message board. It’s a good rule to have; however, it will only work if it’s enforced.
Recently a fellow blogger and founder of eMailOurMilitary.com was subjected to harassment while using Twitter. She summed up the situation on her blog by the following:
“To make a long story short, someone sought me out on twitter and made it their mission to post harassing, abusive and libelous statements about me and my company. I’m all about freedom of speech. I’m all for discussion, discourse and debate but when someone creates 20 or so accounts for the sole purpose of stalking me or posting libelous statements about my company that’s where I draw the line.”
Being a conscientious and savvy web user, she immediately blocked the harasser and his various Twitter accounts and contacted Twitters administration about the breach of TOS. Instead of Twitter taking action and investigating the matter, they informed her that she should block him and protect her posts. Instead of protecting her and holding to the TOS agreements, it seemed as it they blamed HER for getting harassed and complaining about it-kind of like blaming a rape victim for getting raped because she was wearing a short skirt.
Like any other business, Twitter offers a service to consumers. As with any business, they have a responsibility to their consumers to make sure that they are safe-not only from viruses and trojans, but also from those individuals who believe that the world wide web gives them free rein to make other people’s lives difficult.


11 Comments
May 1, 2008 at 7:56 pm
very well written post.
I am on all of those social networking sites. I have reconnected with many people I loved but had lost contact with….I have met alot of GREAT bloggers through those sites.
I have had my share of ISSUES (there are plenty of archived posts on my site about MySpace and FaceBook ect et..
But …I have had MORE good experineces than bad
May 1, 2008 at 8:19 pm
I like Facebook, but I have recently changed my profile to private and took a lot of my information off of it.
May 1, 2008 at 10:14 pm
Great post! Thanks for blogging about this and helping others become more aware. As users we have to speak up if we want these social networking sites and services to take us seriously and make the appropriate changes to protect us.
May 1, 2008 at 10:19 pm
Does the good overcomes the bad? Do some of us bloggers need to be thrown into the fire for the community to evolve as a whole?
Is it the fault of the channel or is this the danger of public exposure?
May 1, 2008 at 10:40 pm
I have been amazed how people will leave comments on my blog that i am sure they wouldn’t say to me in person. I can’t believe the tactless actions of a few who ruin things for innocent users.
May 1, 2008 at 11:29 pm
M.E. I’d be interested in reading some of your archive posts about your Social Networking Site experiences…I guess everyone has at least one negative experience there…
Tammy, I’m usually pretty careful what I give away and what I don’t on those sites. Something tells me I need to edit my Facebook account though.
Dayngr, No, THANK YOU for making me more aware of the issues-and your nice words. I hope that this little bit helps make more people aware of the situation.
Antonio, thanks for stopping by and weighing in. 1. I do think that the good does outweigh the bad, I know that my post focused more on the negative (hey, I’m a pessimist)…but if situations like this continue…well it can turn the other way pretty quickly. 2. I’m not in the mood for sacrificing today. That’s a weekend activity.
3. Honestly, I don’t know. It’s like the chicken or the egg.
Gina, I’m sorry about any mean comments you may have gotten. People can be really…poopy at times.
May 2, 2008 at 4:57 am
For all their terms of use, these sites are not very good at policing or punishing those who transgress. As an ex-teacher, there was a facebook group started up by ex-pupils about me - it was libellous, abusive and infringed copyright. It was taken down twice and yet those responsible still have Facebook accounts and were not punished in any way. I found Facebook’s response to the whole matter less than satisfactory.
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May 2, 2008 at 7:11 am
Until recently I was on Facebook.. However after having a conversation with my brother solipsist.. I took action and got rid of my account.. however, I was quite disappointed when seeing that if I was to re -log in I could.. why wouldn’t they (facebook) just remove it completely.. They are expecting me to change my mind.. I haven’t had any problems with it per say.. I just didn’t like the fact that they are able to take whatever you put on there and it belongs to them.. pictures and so on.. That is very sad when people choose to play cruel hoaxes on others.. In the end they didn’t get charged.. which they should have… The Drew’s have to live with this guilt and harrassment themselves…
May 2, 2008 at 8:12 am
this story doesn’t surprise me at all. unfortunately that’s just how things are in this world these days - it’s never the attackers fault it’s always the victims.
thankfully i’ve never had any trouble with online-bullying… not yet anyway.
May 2, 2008 at 8:30 am
No really bad experience yet. But then, I don’t use it a lot and therefore don’t take too much risk.
May 2, 2008 at 10:13 am
That’s horrible. I used to have a myspace account but canceled it because I didn’t like how “high school” it was-people ranking you and all that stuff. I also didn’t like having all of that info out there…I know I blog, but somehow it’s a little different for me.
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